De-cluttering

Know your “Why”

Asking, “How do I start? Where do I begin? Why am I going to do this hard thing?”

German philosopher Frederick Nietzsche once said, ‘He who has a why can endure any how.’

I don’t know about you, but I like me a real good mission statement. Have you ever read one that got you pumped at each phrase, that made you feel ready to join the cause and get it done?

Since I’m about to embark on a deeper level of decluttering, I need to revisit my ‘why.’ It’s changed a little bit since I started my first declutter challenge a few years ago. My why is this: I want to spend more time with the people I love, doing things that I love, than managing ‘stuff.’ Hey, that looks pretty good on paper. I like it. Ok, so the challenge here is that it’s going to take time away from things I love (shoot, this novel is due back at the library today and I really want to finish it!). So, here’s how I’m going to do this. I’m going to write concrete goals on sticky notes and move three of them onto today’s docket. If I don’t get them all done because I’m playing Qwirkle with my six year old, I’ve still chosen to be true to my mission of staying present with my kids. What doesn’t get done on my agenda today can get done tomorrow. It’s that healthy journey I’m looking for of choosing progress over perfection, and finding rest amidst a challenging season.

De-cluttering

On asking for help in reaching a goal…

Do you find it easy to ask for help? Where do you go for help once you identify you need it?

If you’re anything like me, the answer is “no”. No, I don’t find it easy to ask for help. No, I don’t do it often or well. Even when I know I need help, I put it off. Excuses include busyness and not wanting to burden others. Ok, I hear you.

I propose that asking for help is brave and it’s the first step to moving forward with your goal. This post needs expansion in the future, but I’m going to start with the topic of decluttering. I, like you, have a journey of how I got to where I am in my relationship to ‘stuff.’ More on that later. I’ve spent three years dabbling on the surface of declutter challenges on Facebook and taking courses offered by amazing women who are simply overwhelmed by the state of their home and by all their stuff. I’ve made progress, but then I got stuck.

Realizing you’re stuck is a great time to pivot and reach out for help. And it’s so healthy and good to take action steps in that regard. So once again, I signed up for an online decluttering course, after watching The Minimal Mom for over a year on YouTube! Her kind tone, her gentle care and approach have appealed to me and I feel ready to push through the hard and get to the deeper levels.

I hope that here I can process and show you what it looks like for an ordinary girl (who’s got lots of DNA that suggests that I’ll hold onto stuff for way too long) to take her house back! I’m ready, I’ve got some help, and I’m going to go for it! Are you coming?